It used to take hard work to become famous. That was before the arrival of Youtube and social media. Now apps like Snapchat, Whisper, and Kik Messenger make it possible for kids to have all sorts of things going on without their parent's knowledge. What do these apps do?
These are Social media apps that let teens do it all -- text, chat, meet people, and share their pics and videos -- they often fly under parents' radars.
Social media wasn't around 100 years ago when I was a kid; thankfully there's no permanent record of the crazy, stupid things I did when I was a teenager. Andy Warhol once famously said, "In the future, everyone will be world-famous for 15 minutes." ----Hello---- That day has now arrived.
How Social Media Effects Teen Girls
As if I didn't already have enough things to watch out for In this world where truth truly is stranger than fiction; I find out that some teenage girls are carelessly competing on social media sites to see who can be the most popular. They are in a contest that has no winners, trying to see who can get the most for likes, followers or hearts.Parents of Teens and Social Media
As the father of a teenage age girl myself; I'm extremely concerned about what's happening on these social media sites. A while back I was chatting with my daughter, and she told me that Facebook was for "old people" and that today's teens rarely used Facebook. Our conversation that day reminded me that if I want to stay on top of things, it will take constant, continuous communication with my kids. You have to be fearless and ask tough questions like- Should I ban smart phone from the bedroom at night?
- Should I friend or follow my teen on social media?
- What should I teach my child about social media?
For myself and my family, the second line of defense is our church. It's not that God isn't first in our lives. It's just a fact that if your kids see you putting God first, they are more likely to do the same, so it begins with you. Don't get me wrong; the folks in church are not perfect, and neither am I, but I've found that the teachers, friends, and associations my daughter has in the church have given her a firm foundation to base her decisions on.Proverbs 22:6 King James Version (KJV)
6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
"I spent the past 2½ years researching my new book American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers, visiting 10 states and talking to more than 200 girls. It was talking to girls themselves that brought me to the subject of social media and what sexualization is doing to their psyches. How is it affecting their sense of self-worth? The tweens and teens I spoke to were often very troubled by the ways the culture of social media was exerting influence on their self-images and their relationships, with both friends and potential dating partners. They were often highly aware of the adverse effects of the sexualization on girls—but not always sure what to do about it." Nancy Jo SalesHave a great week. God be with you until we meet again. Copyright: Photo Credit
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